Hi there, we're The EXHEAL Guys. We feel your pain.
We’ve both been through it all. The full gamut. Debilitating depression, anxiety, insomnia, complete insecurity and loss of self-respect, refusal to eat or leave the house, complete hopelessness that this will ever get better.
Meet the guys
"I started falling behind with work. I had a company to run and I’d be there in meetings completely checked out. I sat there mute and completely unable to contribute to the discussion at hand that I was supposed to be leading. My staff called me out on it, like what’s going on with you. It’s very hard to motivate your team when all you can think about is your shattered life. I couldn’t bear to talk about it so I stopped talking to everyone. I locked myself in my room watching netflix and stopped talking to my friends. Stopped talking to my family. Stopped working out. Stopped eating healthy. When I stopped answering work emails my board noticed and I was suddenly about to be removed from my OWN company. Everything I had been working towards for years was in jeopardy."
"My entire life was shattered. I slept all the time, and when I’d wake up I was hoping it was just a dream. When I realized it wasn’t, I’d go back to sleep. I never wanted to eat, since cooking or going out to eat was something we always did together, so I got into this weird place where I couldn’t eat without getting anxiety about her. I ended up losing over 10 pounds really quickly. My whole vision of the future I was working towards was with her and now that it was over, I had no purpose or ambition for the future. I didn't even have friends to fall back on, because all of our friends were shared friends at this point so I didn’t want to talk to them. I was humiliated to face them after she broke it off. I was truly alone without anything to look forward to, and it didn't seem like there was any way for it to get better."
Our Story
Before [EX]HEAL, Dan and Mike were both high-powered tech executives in Silicon Valley, with fantastic track records, who were responsible for the livelihoods of many employees and investors.
They had to have incredible emotional resilience and tenacity to overcome countless challenges and insurmountable odds to get to their positions. But there was one thing that almost brought both of them down.
Heartbreak.
As research and data-driven leaders, they looked for the solution to overcome heartbreak, and were completely dissatisfied with the quality of information available to the public.
After discussing their shared experience, they decided to do a deep dive together, and find the fastest way to get over a breakup, based entirely on science and data.
Mike and Dan knew that, if heartbreak was something that was emotionally insurmountable to them, there must be millions of others struggling to figure out how to get over a breakup. While creating software was fun, they found an opportunity to use their skills and experience for something they had truly become passionate about, and something that could really help people.
This is the start of [EX]HEAL.
As they've done so many times in the tech industry, Mike and Dan used their proven scienific and psychological research process to develop the fastest way to get over your ex. This process included hundreds of academic studies, thousands of hours of research, and contributions from several top psychologists in the field.
Mike and Dan's goal is to make sure nobody has to go through the turmoil of losing their loved one again without having the real, scientific answer to how get over your ex, how to get over your heartbreak, and how to feel happy again.
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